Sunday, March 27, 2011

fear...

Heart pounding
anxiety flowing
tension building....

the shaking
the fear.....

Sometimes these are a common occurrence for me.

Sometimes I know what brings it on and other times I don't.

It's real these panic attacks.  It's like a shot of adrenalin with no release. (I'm not an adrenalin junkie like my husband :)  Instead, I thank God for the prescription that's up high in the cabinet....and thankful for the permission to use it!  And I do when I need to...usually less than the amount I'm allowed to take.  It helps to calm and get my panic back under control. 

But I also use my Bible and the scriptures there to calm and reassure me.  Over and over, as I think about the words of scripture, it helps to sooth my nerves.


For the past year this has been one of the scriptures I quote.  Sometimes I can't even grasp the beginning and just skip to the 'peace of God' and cry for God's peace.  And it comes. 


Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6,7

Through this verse, I see things I hadn't seen before.  ...with thanksgiving 

 A car to put gasoline in even when it's killing me!

Money to buy food with even though the prices seem to keep going higher.

Miracles when building the house...my kitchen cabinets, the parlor doors, the trim and the list goes on....even when I wonder why we ended up with a house bigger than we need...(we had plans on adoption and helping kids, but God closed that door.)

...so I wonder, "why?  I don't need all this stress". 

I start looking closer and thanking Him for the things that hurt.

...moving

...finding good in the bad

...looking at walls that were impossible four years ago and how much better they are now

...the stress of building a house and some of the impossible things that are out of my control.

...and realizing that is the problem...I can't control it...so I try to yield and let Him control that impossibility.

  I don't do a very good job....

I look back over things I thought I'd never be able to walk through and remember...

The pain, tears, hurt....hard hurt...yet a healing hurt.  I made it through them even tho I might still suffer with them at times, it is nothing like it was.  I feel a healing there inside of me where that gaping hole was torn.  I grieve for things that can never be.  I grieve for the security of being able to allow that me inside out.  It's been trampled and I hide.  It's easier that way.  The less I say...the less I hurt.  And I remember the scripture that helped me through .....and it can help me now.

But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O Jacob, and he that formed thee, O Israel,
Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.


When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.  Isaiah 43

So I walk...with the water sometimes lapping at my feet, sometimes over my head...and feel the heat of the fire....and remember I will not drown, I will not be burned.

...He knows my name and He remembers me.  He knows how I feel and even why...and He does not care....because He loves me.

And I try to be thankful.

...I try to find beauty and joy again in the every day things of life

...I rejoice in the 'helps' along the way
(One Thousand Gifts....a big encouragement to continue to be thankful).

...I enjoy the peace being thankful brings.

...and in the times when I can't see to be thankful.

...when the panic is full blown and my mind is racing

...I can not sleep

...tears make tracks down my cheeks

...my head hurts...my heart hurts even worse

....I try to do as Paul tells me...

'rest in His hand'

....and picture me in HIS hand

...the one who made everything...yet cares enough to hold me. 

Thursday, March 24, 2011

I was wrong...

Ok...I know several friends have said this was an awesome lady who had an awesome website....

....but I just thought to myself..."I don't want to hear any more theology etc...etc" 

Some where I had heard that there was some Amish/Mennonite connection (actually she just lives close to them) and I just really didn't want to have a lot to do with it because....

...I'm like that.  I have things I'd rather forget than be reminded of them. I don't enjoy reading books about their religions etc.  It's a personal thing.  It doesn't bother me if you like the books...that is fine :)  And, no, I will not discuss with you why I don't like the books. :)

So these ideas kept me from experiencing and understanding more about my life and my walk with God....

I received a book this week from my friend, Heidi.  The title is "One Thousand Gifts".   Written by Ann Voskamp .  The author and writing of the website  www.aholyexperience.com   The website I wasn't interesting in....

What a book!  I can't put it down and yet it takes time to really think about the words written and the impact they have on life....my life.  Interestingly, it's along the same line that God has been guiding me...encouraging me....to give thanks.  In the good times, in the bad times, for the little things of life.....

Yet....I struggle and will still struggle as I learn...but I'm so excited to see where this journey takes me.

I urge you to try it.   Experience it.  It could make a difference.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Blessings

 
 My friend, Heidi, told me about this song last Sunday.  The words are awesome.  I'm going to learn the song so we can use it sometime.
Blessings
Laura Story

We pray for blessings
We pray for peace
...Comfort for family
Protection while we sleep

We pray for healing
For prosperity
We pray for Your mighty hand
to ease our suffering

And all the while
You hear each spoken need
Yet love is way too much to give us lesser things

Cuz what if Your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know you’re near
What if trials of this life
Are Your mercies in disguise?

We pray for wisdom
Your voice to hear
We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near
We doubt Your goodness
We doubt Your love
As if every promise from Your Word is not enough

And all the while You hear each desperate plea
Lord, that we’d have faith to believe

Cuz what if Your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know you’re near
What if trials of this life
Are Your mercies in disguise?

When friends betray us
When darkness seems to win
We know the pain reminds this heart
That this is not
This is not our home

Cuz what if Your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know you’re near
What if trials of this life
Are Your mercies in disguise?

What if my greatest disappointments
Or the aching of this life
is the revealing of a greater thirst
This world can’t satisfy?
And what if trials of this life
The rain
The storms
The hardest nights
are your mercies in disguise

 
should be a link to this song 

rest...

Let the beloved of the Lord rest secure in Him, for He shields him all day long, and the one the Lord loves rests between His shoulders. Deuteronomy 33:12. 
Lately, I'm just uptight.  I know there are reasons, some physical, but I've just struggled alot with getting my muscles and mind to relax.  Sometimes I feel myself slipping off....Last night I told Paul I don't know why ...I don't have the reasons to feel anxious like so many others.  My house hasn't been washed away, I don't live in appalling situations, I know where my children are...  A friend shared this scripture and I really liked it.  I know I am blessed.  Blessed to have Paul hold my hand tight when I can't sleep; blessed to see my kids smile; blessed to enjoy music, to have my cats snuggle close, to have a job...the list goes on and on.  Thankful for my blessings.